I've go a dilemma, There's this girl that i've been really good friends with for 4 years now,But i'd like to take that relationship to the next level. my problem is that if she doesn't and i ask her out i cant just blow it off and continue with my life like i could if she wasn't my close friend. I would have to live with her looking at me weird and probably feeling kind of uncomfortable around me for a long time. What are some ways i could tell that she feels the way i do? and if she doesn't, what are some things i could do to move the relationship in that direction?