See, you hit the key on what I care most about in a relationship. The TIME that she gives me..that she prefers to spend time with me...her attention. But I'd hate to enforce that..to enforce anything. I wish her to give me a lot of attention, but only as much as she wants to give me...in other words, I hate to force anything. I want it all to be her choice..not "these are the rules". I guess that's what I was trying to get at with this whole thread. It's a radical, yet logical way to look at a relationship I guess. No contracts signed..no rules..hell, I guess by definition there's no word for it. I guess it would confuse people for someone in one such relationship to say "I have a girlfriend or bofriend" but s/he's out with some other dude/girl right now...but s/he'll be back to me tonight because I'm this person's preference.

But I doubt that will ever happen.

Freddie

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