ok well this really isnt about me...its about my best friend but i need help/advice....i rly wanna help her but i dunno how
sorry for the length =/
so my best friend Aly had just gotten out of a bad relationship and she decided to stay single for awhile....but than her friend Meg introduced her to this guy online...they began talking a lot on the phone..she would come home from school and go to work...than he would call her and
they would talk for hours.....but she didnt wanna get attached because she was afraid of getting hurt....finally one night Jay (the guy) says that after talking to her for a long time
he really likes her and wants to hang out that coming friday...Aly with hesitation knew she had grown attached and felt like he was the perfect guy for her
so she instantly said yes....they talked all week and awaited friday....she wwas so happy all that week she really thought things were working out for her...than friday came..
she was so nervous, afraid he wouldnt like her and she would be crushed...but knowing this guy myself
i knew he would never ever hurt someone like that
so they meet...but is was a disaster....
they didnt talk at all...both of them are extremely shy...but things got even worse...
my other friends left em alone and he told her things wont work...she was crushed....but they remained friends
a couple months later they hung out and he was getting all touchy feely with her....
he kept sending mixed messages and she was getting hurt by this
finally valentines day
he started calling her again, at a party we all went to he defended her and talked to her and
he kept telling her she was a great person. SO that night
they talked all night and the next day....she said it was like old time...than
he just stoppes talking to her...he hasnt talked to her since...
and she is crushed again
i dunno what to do to help her...its been months now since they met and
she still hasnt gotten over him...i mean she has had relationships since him but they didnt last long...
this guy is really hurting her and i want to help...and she has tried to forget him but he always seems to do something or say something that makes her believe that things will work for them
can someone please give me advice..i wanna help her
thanks<3
Janie<3