i agree with you nomas once again about the time thing. to me, it would bug me that my boyfriend was giving MY time to some other woman. but i tell you, emotions and jealousy show their ugly faces at some point. where the rules aren't logical anymore, they're emotional. okay for example, thursday when i told my boyfriend that you were coming into town and we were planning to go to the cooperage with some of your friends and some of my friends he said, "oh that'll be fun". all good one would think right? well the next morning he said, "you know that now i can go on dates with other girls, right?" i was like "uh, no" and told him that i wasn't going out on a date. and that the difference is that he would be going and doing what some other girl wanted to do and not doing what i want to do. and that it's not a "date" for reasons that seemed pretty obvious to me. perfectly reasonable right? well i tell you, the emotions and the jealousy start flowing and all of a sudden and you're like, "what the frik?" but even he couldn't explain himself very well. he said that he doesn't want to tell me what to do and what not to do, but he didn't want me going out with you either. but i understand this, if he met a woman online and she came and wanted to go out with my man to do something that he really liked to do, i would be incredibly jealous. and though i trust this man with my life, i would still be jealous.

relationships are so unpredictable, everybody's got their own rules, they're not always logical.