Freddie,

Surely if they want to be out with other people then they aren't completely happy with you? Hmmm, just a thought not sure if it's right or not. Also, what I learnt from my last relationship is that there's no point trying to keep my other half happy if it's making me unhappy ergo if they want to go out with other pepole and that makes them happy fine. however it would make me really unhappy & therefore I would have to walk away no matter how much it hurt.

I think my biggest relationship rule is consideration. Fine if you're going to bail out on some arrangement but please have the consideration to let me know as much in advance as possible rather than wussing out so I have to find out the day before & have nothing to do all weekend. And when you ring up to tell me at least make it sound like you considered me in the decision e.g. ask me if it's ok (like I'm going to say no anyway) it's kind of superficial but makes you feel valued.

Claire