We met at school (college) We go out a good bit and we always have a good time. In the past she has said that she is not prepared at this point for a relationship, due to past experience that she has not completely ridded out of her system, She mentioned this about a month ago. I have never felt like this about another person though. The feeling is so strong, and I have definitely never experienced it before. I really want to convey to her how much I care about her and feel for her, but I am so scared that I could risk blowing this all to hell if I just came out and expresssed myself fully about my true feelings. I don't know, I just have a gut feeling that subtlety is the way I should approach this situation. I really want to subtley, yet progressively, let her know how I feel and see where things can lead to.