Hey i was going to comment on the hate the kissing on the cheek thing, because i dont think every girl hates that i think it depends on the situation, but you elaborated and explained yourself, so thats fair enough. I have to say tho i love it when my boyfriend kisses me on the cheek or forehead as i find it very intimate, as a change from on the lips or down the throat

lol i guess were all different
As for the bloke, he just didnt knw what he wanted, maybe he just wanted sex, maybe he got freaked out cos u said you liked him, maybe hes incredibly shy, maybe hes just an *******, maybe he just realised he didnt like you, maybe his ex wife came back to him lol you will just never know, so forget him and move on, you know u can do better
much love xxxx