Thanks for the comments Black Rose....sorry for the take of leave from the forums been a rough week. I guess I am just going to sit back and let them be even though the feelings haven't subsided. I understand that a marriage is unlike a long-term relationship. The ultimate committment has been made and I must respect that. All I know is that her and I will still be friends, but I can't help to look at her a little differently. I am just going to try my luck somewhere else, but my luck has been no luck at all for the past couple of years. The women that I have dated have all been a "little off" if you know what I mean. Maybe I will get in on some more post and check and see some advice.