hey man look when u are eating out another girl u have got to keep licking. Never stop but u must kinda warm her up first u cannot just dive in and expect it to be the same. Start by kissing her aroung the area where her legs meet her pussy. And keep doing it that will kinda preheat the oven, then u can start by licking her sides of her pussy but i do not find it neccessary to use my fingers for anything other than just holding her hands because she finds it more erotic or something when i am touching her clit and the sides of the rest of her pussy. But what she really loves is when u put your entire mouth around her pussy lips while u lick it. this will drive her mad and even when she stops jumping or moaning keep going and going i lick my girl about 30-40 minutes and she has about 20 orgasms and she loves me for it so i hope this helps u out man , good luck and have fun