Yeah I am, I have a number of negative preconceptions of meeting online...and my exeperience has been a bust so far (2 dates so far) but they were sooooooo bad, that it just didnt work for me...so I'm wondering if there is anything I could do to "screen" better...to see if we'd actually be compatable...

Yes I just started talking to someone the other day...and so far the person seems like the type of girl I would like to get set up with. (from our few convo's....a number of things came out without me prompting them...just "things" about her...like interests, and ethnic similarities...this was inadvertantly discovery)

I'm just wondering how best to go about it, and if there are any good stories...good tricks...things to look for...etc.