well most of the time i think people will tell you when a girl can't have an orgasmism it usually has to do with her over thinking it, and just not being relaxed enough. you said above that she's always been like this, even before you i would assume that means. to me that would signify that she's the one with the issue not you. also they way you say she talks to you during sex, like saying just stick it in says to me she really want to be having sex with you in the first place, and probably just wanted to get it done and over with in a hurry. i have been in that kind of situation when i was younger. it hadn't always been that when, but there were problems in our relationship and it sorta crossed over into the bed room. i think that can happen alot. sex can be a very good indicator to problems in the relationship.

i read over ur post about your break up, i'm wondering if you want her back?!?