You have absolutely nothing if you don't have trust. The internet provides a difficult arena for trusting people. I feel I can trust Jane, she has never - as far as I know - given me a reason not to trust her.

I can understand and respect her position on it, for sure.

I can see if you met the person and he or she totally lied to you, screwed you over or whatever, then yes the relationship is over and you won't trust them.

However, if you meet the person and you find out that he/she was totally honest, then the trust issue is no longer an issue.

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