why do you possess a feeling that you must tell her about your past? it's not a rule in the guidelines of dating you know. i feel that if it were to come up, you should discuss it but otherwise, i don't see a reason to bring up the past. look at it this way, it's like if she were to tell you about all the guys she have dated which gives her all her experience. it's not really relevant but as long as the two of you have come together, that is what should really matter? right? raverboy

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