Prodigal----Is this an issue about 'settling'? As in settling for second best?

I guess if you went about your love life in an informed logical fasion, you'de pursue the 'happy girl'. There may not be that spark, but if you guys get along, it could lead to a really nice calm, comfortable relationship.

If you're a die-hard romantic, you'de hold out for the love of your life, who is moving to the eastcoast. You feel the sparks, the passion is there, if you guys ever get together, it'll be volatile. You'de hold out, till she finds someone else on the eastcoast. Than you'de be crushed.

It sounds harsh, but ain't life so.