advice came a bit late. i already asked. (She does know me well by the way illusional). I did what i said i was going to and she told me that she's 'too busy to be someone's girlfriend now' I didn't get into it anymore at the time. I just don't get how i got that kind of response. now granted, she is a very busy person, but she will be less busy in a week from now. plus, shouldn't it not be important whether she is too busy or not? she isnt TOO busy because we have found time to do stuff together for dates. her being busy shouldnt be a problem unless i mind, which i dont. i know that she is busy and i am ok with that.
The other thing is that i dont know why she would have been going on dates with me if she had no intentions of going out with me. I can't possibly believe that she would play me knowing her character, but it appears that way. I take her out on dates, and have bought her gifts for her birthday and flowers which she accepts. I even told her a little over a month ago that I wanted to be her boyfriend and that if she wasnt comfortable with that just to let me know and i would stop asking her on dates and she told me to keep asking. Should I say these things to her? 'm totally at a loss.