Hi all, another newbie here but longtime observer of this wonderful place, always thought there should be one of these and I'm glad to see such a quality place

Hope I can share my experience of the what I have felt with people as I'm sure people can relate and I can relate to them how love can change your life and change from being the most magical experience to the dark shallow pain within our hearts.

Well lets explain, 6 years ago I found the love of me life while working temporary at a job place, this women would change my life, we got married after 2 years of dating and bought a house, made a beuatiful daughter together, they were my world, I was happy and content. Thought I had found my Happy ever after.

This all changed when she walked out on me out of the blue and I did not see her for 3 days, I just took a step back and gave her space. I then met her after she finished work as I was really worried to find out the most painful news, words that came out of her mouth that were so surreal and twisted that I thought I was having a bad dream. She came clean that she'd been having an affair with an older man of 40 years old.

World was shattered.
After a week she came back to me to try again, but this lasted less than a week, after working 87 hours at work I came home kissed my wife on the cheek for her to tell me that she would perfer to be with some fat 40 yr old. I was forced to let go and walk away.

Been 8 months since that terrible time. life has changed, have to just put it all down to experience.

I still miss her, I suppose I always will but the trust and respect for her has gone, we are on friendly terms I see my daughter which is great, and I'm going steady with a new love who makes me smile.

Love eh.... can be great, but can be the worst thing that can happen to you.