you're taking the wrong interpretation of what she means. i have told you not to rush things and you are rushing it. she has "never" had a bf before so what makes you think that a month will be sufficient? she may have known you for a while, and you may feel that you're ready to start something, but she on the other hand wants to get to know you better. being mad at her won't solve anything. it just shows that you don't really care and don't respect her for wanting more time for herself. it's more so like you haven't gotten rejected, just put on hold. if you really wanted to be with her, you'd wait for her to become unbusy.

her being busy, that is her way of telling you that she's not ready to start anything serious with you. yes, the dates are nice but she ISN'T leading you on. going on dates doesn't mean a person wants to be your gf when you're ready to ask her to be your gf. you have to be patient and show her that you're ready for such a commitment. and by being mad at her won't show anything on your part. i've been trying with this girl for 4 years...yes 4 years and i have gotten rejected twice by her, yet i'm still her friend. i don't have anything against her for not wanting to go out with me, yet i'm happy that i have her as a friend. something that you might want to think about while you're mad at her. on the real, she never did lead you on, you only let yourself believe that she wanted a relationship when she is only trying to get to know you better. you never know what the future will bring so if you really want to be with her, just keep it cool and keep getting to know her at her pace. raverboy

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...this is just my perspective on the situation...