hrmm... you can just create a new account considering that you're still new here. it won't really matter. but if you really wanna change it, you can talk to "loveadmin" and request that he change it for you.

as for your case.. damn that is a tough one. most people in the world say they aren't shallow and go basically on personality, but when the truth comes down to it, you have to be attracted to her person both physically and mentally. i won't say that i know how to help you in this situation because this IS a tough one, but if i think of something, i'll let you know.

raverboy