there's no such thing as "true love." love is love. it's not an emotion. it has nothing to do with feelings. you can love something or someone or everything and you don't have to feel good about them/it/whatever. i love many people and many things, but i don't have to be around them all the time and control or dominate them or suck them into my world to show them i love them. i don't even have to see them or talk to them. i think love is the acceptance that this world is this world and we have to do with our insignificant little lives what we can. but anyway i don't claim to be any kind of expert on love this is just all my humble opinion. i'm just as stumped as everybody else.