Maybe it is possible, but I doubt it. Seeing as you've dated this guys friend, I highly doubt that this new guy you like is going to take a chance on straining and possibly ruining his friendship cause you want to date him. If it were at all going to happen, it'd either happen WAY down the road, or he'd be taking a risk at losing his friend.

Guys don't like to see friends date their ex's. It's sort of an unwritten rule. That and close relatives (ie sisters and brothers). And as the saying goes, "Bros before hos" meaning to put your friends concerns and feelings above that of any girl that you wanna go out with. Cause girls come and go, but your friends will always be there.

If you REALLY want to date this guy, don't pressure him at all. Don't flirt heavily. Don't do anything like that. And if you're ever around him and his friends (meaning the one who's your ex), keep your hands off and be respectful to your ex. I'm sure he doesn't want to see you all over this guy.

Alexi