hey i just wanted your opinions on something...
im pretty much my boyfriends 1st relationship, however when he was about 14/15 he 'messed about' with a 12 y/o girl. 12!! i mean, they didnt have full sex, but still way more than any 15 y/o should do, let alone 12!.
worst thing being they wernt in a relationship, they didnt even like each other. he got himself a reputation of rapist/pervert, which i agree with, 12 is just rediculous.
although she had as much to do with it as him, i still think he was sooo sick and deserved all he got. when i was 12, i was raped by my boyfriend. i know they wernt boyfriend and girlfriend, but thinking about it brings back a lot of painful memories, i know i shouldnt therefor think about it but i cant seem to forget it. his attitude is 'i (him) dont care about it, so why should you?(me)' is it that simple though? how do you begin to forget about something so perverted?


also, since im posting
theres this girl at my 6th form who hates me, and sleeps with every boyfriend i have (that she can get her grubby hands on), just to get back at me for one of her ex's fancying me when we were 9!!
anyway she fancies my current, and is trying to get with him ( just because hes my current) and i found out the other day he fancies her, fantasyses about her, and thinks shes perfect. do i have reason to be hurt/annoyed? not just about wanting another woman, but wanting HER.
seems to me its about loyalty, he knows how much shes hurt me but always talks to her etc. it doesnt help his best friend also fancys her, so when they aare back from uni and visit they always hang around her. any advice on whos being 'wrong' and what to do/say to him?
thanks in advance