Can I ask how old you guys are because it sounds like alot of teenage games are being played. If he was 14 and she was 12 I wouldn't worry about that one. Let it go. A 14 yr old boy doesn't have the brains enough to understand right from wrong when it comes to sex. As for your "girlfriend" huh...I hope she isn't your friend anymore. Why is she still in your life anyway? Your guy should not be flirting or talking to her if he knows how it makes you feel. He should care more about your feelings! I don't think your wrong at all for feeling the way you do. Listen...you guys are young I'm assuming, so don't waste time on this kind of headache it's not worth it. Find someone who worships the ground you walk on and don't settle for anything less..lol Good luck