My first question is...have you yourself every had sex before? I'm guessing she is a virgin however. Why did you two decide to wait until marriage, was it her idea alone that you agreed upon, or was it a long discussion as to why you should wait?

My last girlfriend said the same thing to me, and I agreed to wait, but in reality I really couldn't...we used to do everything just shy of sex...until one day...oops I guess she pulled me in...oh and yes she was a virgin btw.

I think sex should come naturally I guess is all I'm saying.

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