Originally Posted by BombShelterBob
OK First sex doesn't loose its appeal. The equipment may stop working, but as long as girls wiggle a$$es men will love them.
I'm more of a leg guy myself.
I feel I should clear something up. I'm not trying to con her into having sex. I've already accepted that it's not going to happen, barring a major change of heart on her part. I'm fine with that. I agreed to it, and I can live with it.
What I'm looking for are subtle ways to excite her, without being overtly sexual. Granted, any kind of intimate physical contact is arousing, but I'm looking for things like brushing her hair, giving her a backrub, etc. Things that she'll find pleasurable, but which don't naturally lead into a sexual encounter. Not because I can't control myself, but because I'd prefer to avoid the awkwardness of it. Hopefully that clears things up.
Anyway, BombShelterBob is right. As we get to know each other better, the limits of the physical relationship will beging to come into focus. Thanks for the input.