When I met my bf he had come here to Canada from India to study. We both thought he wouldn't be here long, and we fought our feelings so we could 'save ourselves from getting hurt', but we fell in love anyways. Basically I told him him '**** it, let's just go with it....if it was meant to be it will work out.' He applied to stay in Canada, and guess what? It DID work out.

We've been together over 2 and a half years and are planning to get married.

So just go for it. Whats meant to be, will be. Good luck!