HAHA, I sit here and nothing good EVER happens. I can honestly say I have all the traits in the girl you were talking about...whatever happens happens for a reason...but is there a reason for what DOESN'T happen??? Except maybe, God hates me. That must be it. Why must I be born at all if I was destined to live (and die) alone in misery.

OK that was a little OT (actually not really, it's to remind you that there are ppl worse off than you), but seems like your situation has potential of working out- Good Luck!