Thanks again raverboy.

Latest developments:

1. She has suddenly started behaving in what can only be called a jealous way. When I've gone out to lunch or seen a film with other female colleagues, she has been extremely curious, or invited herself along, or actually tried to "steal" my date on one occasion!! When I told some trusted female friends about this, they all said "SHE'S JEALOUS!!!"

2. At the same time, she's suddenly become "nice" again, both in public and private situations. This whole week she's been an ANGEL! Helping me, asking my advice, big smiles, shown she wants my involvement, communicated freely without any stilted moments, signalled definite closeness and been so damn nice. It hasn't happened in MONTHS! We're rolling again - workwise that is.

3. After all the ups and downs I've felt, last weekend I suddenly blanked out. My emotions just levelled out to some kind of numb zone. I guess I just got worn out emotionally and had to be put on hold for a while, to recharge my batteries. But that also made me feel like the crush had gone - suddenly I was not interested any more. It didn't seem important any more to try and figure out what she was feeling towards me. Can that happen so quickly over night ? My same female friends said "Come off it, you're still madly in love with her, it shows a mile off".

Raverboy, what is your take on all this ????