Guys and girls communicate differently. We all know that. Guys, how would you want to be approached if this is where you were with your girl? She has had some troubling things to talk about with you (involving you)...doesn't have to get to the point of a heated discussion, but she has tried to talk and you...as a guy...have not picked up on it or intentionally avoided contributing to help making things better for your loved one to dodge conflict. My question... How would you prefer to be approached at this stage with the objective to get you involved in working through the given issue without the girl freaking out on you first or just getting so frustrated she just leaves you?