Subject: We have issues with his ex (that he has his daughter of 2 yrs with). This ex was a f**k friend that had an "oops" situation. Anyways, he and I have been together about a year now, and he confessed to me as we were getting serious, and he began talking of marriage with me, that he had slept with her when we were dating early on. She is, in fact, a psycho *****, and he had a trend that sex would shut her up in hairy situations. ANYWAYS, that was a while ago, he confessed...I have trust issues, obviously, but I have chosen to work through them (No "dump him" responses please...I have chosen to do otherwise).

Point is... I need to work through this trust issue. He knows it. He knows and kenw then that she was going to be part of the scene forever b/c of their daughter. SO... I have serious issue to the level of communication they have now. OF COURSE, they have to talk about their daughter...but KNOW, she wants him back...and makes attempts every damn day. So...I would like to talk with him about how we are going to deal with this and be able to talk without making it a bigger issue than necessary (albeit a big one already).