Thank you for the response. We have talked about it briefly. This is obviously a topic that is going to affect our relationship for a bit (to say the least). I am getting the impression that now that we have had a few conversations on it and I am still with him, he thinks he is off the hook. We have only begun the healing/trust rebuilding process. I am SIMPLY needing to talk with him about this and get some reassurances as well as some questions anwsered from time to time. That is where I am now. If he even thinks it is coming up, he starts giving me one word answers and no contributive feedback. I still need to talk about it to move on. That's what I need to talk with him about...again, it doesn't have to be confrontational, just two adults working through a very real issue (created by him).