Oh, doll69, thank heavens for you! I was getting quite depressed reading all those replies!
I think you are right, I was originally attracted to my love interest purely on looks (and his amazing smile!), and I'm almost certain he was atrracted to me because of my looks. After we had our night of passion that was it for us.
But recently, I have noticed that we really do have so much in common. We share the same hobbies outside work...which is something neither of us knew about when we first got together. Our up bringings are so similar, it's quite scary!
When we are together with a group of people, we stand and get the giggles...laughing at the same joke, and other people just stare at us!

I know eveyone tries to convince themselves, that the one they fancy is acutally their "soul mate"..but I'm not a teenager with a crush! I'm a fully fledged adult who has never felt this way before.

We do seem to have this "deeper level" interest in each other (and as I've said, I know he likes me) ... so is it likely he feels the chemistry as much as I do?

I know I may sound obsessive, but I need to know how to handle this....and the first part of that is trying to establish how strongly he feels about me, without having to ask him and make an idiot of myself!