Then this other person (the preference) is the one who has the deal I'd like. For you.. don't think of him as your boyfriend. If he doesn't reciprocate the preference factor, you don't have this relationship I speak of. For him, you're just a friend he's liberal enough to have a good time with with physical displays of affection. This should be what you consider him too..but obviously you'd like for it to be something more. It good luck in it happening for you, but you cannot force it. That sucks.

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