Okay, you guys are all missing a very important fact:

The chemistry can be shared. Usually not the kind of "chemistry" that happens when a hot girl (or guy) is next to you, and you begin to feel warm and euphoric, that usually really is personal.

But two people can in certain situations "be in eachothers' heads," so to speak, at least I think so. It contains that feeling of swooning lightness, but it's more than that, it's a connection, as if you were having the same thoughts they were, feeling the same things, etc. You know it when it happens, you start finishing eachothers' sentences, and you'll probably giggle a lot.

So don't give up! It's a great experience, to share the "chemistry," and it can happen!

Paz.