I think you are right, hopelesromantic, she has told me before she doesn't like to be ANYWHERE by herself, therefore she needs attention constantly. The more I ignore her at work, the more she comes to me. I think it is good advice to just be friends. However, I kind of just want to rid myself of her altogether. She just doesn't understand, even though I've made it clear, that I'm not interested in being just friends with her while she dates every other guy under the sun. I'm an attractive, nice normal guy who wants what every other guy wants (sex of course), and to not give it to me even though I've done numerous things for her, but expects me to sit back and watch her relationships...is insulting. Thanks a lot for your advice.