I've thought about asking her if she just wants to do it and get it over with, and still be just friends. Unfortunately for one thing I don't have the balls, and secondly, as much as I'd like to shag her rotten, thats really not what I'm all about right now. But at work today, she made me look at this website she was on to show me the wedding ring she wants. She told me to remember it, and printed it out and posted it up on my bulletin board. She is totally playing me and I know it, how do I tell her to stop it without being an *******?