Hi,
I have met this bloke at work, he is older than me, and married. I know this is a dodgy situation but i have been trying to decide what to do for weeks. I have really strong "friendship" feelings for him and i can see he acts totally different towards me. I want to let him know that i really value our company and the existing "work" relationship that we have together. I really enjoy work, but going there and seeing him makes me so happy, i bubble inside with joy and feelings i have never felt before. I just want to let him know that our friendship is strong now, before i blurt something totally stupid out and could wreck his marriage and life forever. I wouldn't want to be the cause of a wrecked marriage i just want him to know were "very good" mates!! So the big question is : HOW DO I TELL HIM???? WHAT DO I SAY, WHERE DO I SAY IT??? Please help.