okay, i get that, but then why do i feel so different? I mean, my routine, and attitude, and feelings all changed. And why did I feel like this was the answer to us? Obviously it wasn't. So what is? There has to be something going on right, in order for me to be looking for an answer. And what is so wrong about wanting affection? How many of you ladies out there have sex, thats it, just sex with your man, and then go back to what you were doing? And not just your average quicky, I mean on a daily basis.

I can't talk to him about it, he obviously isn't going to listen, so should I just shut up and roll over and pull them down, when he says so? I told him last night, next time why don't you schedual me an appointment, so I know when the time is right.

It just seems as though, we aren't showing affection to each other, we are just performing a task to release our own built up tension. And he is only worried about his own.