None of you seem to get it. Many of you are discussing the different experiences of sex. This is true and important and it is possible to have much of this in an exclusive relationship, excluding multiple partner-type stuff. But our young virgins here can choose to have that one interaction we can never again have: two virgins for the first time!
Whatsa matter? All you experience hounds don't wanna think that they get something YOU CAN NEVER HAVE? Be patient & enjoy, I say. You'll get to do all the rest of it later.
Oh, my quote (read in some book):
Surround yourself with people who inspire you, avoid those who bring you down. This is how to better oneself.