Originally Posted by mhussain
angel...the only way u can get over this is with someone else.....remember when u left him, there is now a gap in ur heart and in ur soul.....unless and until u fill that gap.........with the love of someone else..u are going to feel hollow.....i dont say that grab the first guy that comes around.....but start looking and remember dont try to answer all the questions that come into ur head all by urself......
I will have to totally disagree with this. You don't NEED a man or another person in your life to fill in your 'gaps'. Those get filled in with your own self-confidence and enjoyment of life. Live for yourself, not through someone else.
When I broke up with a guy I dated for 5 years, I was completely broken up....so I took six months of 'me time' and just spent time figuring out myself and reestablishing close relationships with my girl friends and family. Then when I felt all those empty spaces in my heart were full, only then was I able to date again. Make sure you give yourself that healing time.
And for god sakes, don't do the rebound thing, it never helps.