I know most of you will think this is a joke but I am a guy and I was raped by a girl not 2 years ago. We were dating but I wanted to wait till I was sure she was the right girl. I'm not like most guys. My girlfriend lifted weights a lot and was stronger than most guys I know. She scared some people but not me. I was sure she'd never hurt me. Then one day we started wrestling around for fun and then it got a little sexual so I asked her to calm down. She didn't. By the time I knew it, she had forced me on my back. I don't want to give any details. I'm just going to say this... Yes, I was erect because I am a guy and that is just how our parts work. Apart of me wanted it but most of me didn't. I was more scared than anything else so yes, it was rape. Men can be raped. I am not the first to come out about it. I would like to hear some comments on the subject.