I've had a similar experiance, one girl I left had so many issues that I became disgusted with women in general, I'm not anymore though. Not sure if that's what ya may be feeling like or not. Hopefully you don't.

You say you are scared you might hurt this new chick if ya leave her...Well what kept you with your ex? Was it the same principle? If you are not happy with this new chick, then let her go, it's what's best.

There is no good remedy for what you are going through, only time. My best suggestion is to go out hang out with friends, look up long lost pals, meet new women.

How long were ya with your ex?

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