Look, do you really want to wait 2 years for a guy to come around? Seriously, unless you live in some remote wilderness I am sure there are other great guys you can find who are available NOW not 2 YEARS FROM NOW. Also, if the situation is "confusing" it may simply be indecisiveness on his behalf about acting, not that he's confused. He may be afraid of acting. I say move on, there's other men out there.