i think that's true nomas. however feelings, emotions, etc. get in the way of all this you see. once again you're right in theory, but in practice it is no fun when the person you are seeing is 'fooling around' with others. and fooling around doesn't have to mean sex, either.

it's easy to say, 'i'll never hold this person back he/she is free to do whatever makes them happy...' but to mean it is complicated.