I read this article about being positive and it says, if there's something in your life you don't want, stop worrying about it coz the energy you put into it keeps it alive. We choose how we see people and it's not other people's behaviour that determines how we feel about them it's more on our attitude. Take people in your life and focus on what you like about them, and your relationship will improve. Loving people means giving them the freedom to be who they choose to be and where they choose to be. Love is allowing people to be in your life out of choice so just enjoy it while it last. Do everything you can to make it work, but don't be too attached to the point of being desperate. Any conscious thoughts, repeated over a period of time becomes a reality. So just relax and trust him. If it doesn't work, then move. But I sure hope things will work out for you.