you wouldn't care about how much pain your family and your friends would be in if you killed yourself. don't you think that's pretty ****ing selfish? there's no pain like the one of someone who you love deliberately taking themselves away from you for the rest of their lives. there's so much guilt and anger, people don't easily just get over those things, if they do at all. that's really sad about your friend. how do you think her parents feel now about themselves? reflecting on the pain the person must have been going through and they didn't tell anybody, that's crappy man. if you've ever had a friend or a family member kill themselves i'm positive you'd think differently. it's not an easy way out. there is no easy way out.