Some previous threads in this forum you might look at:
First Time ... (See replies #7, & #8)

Your First Time. (A pretty comprehensive thread - Look at posts #1, #45 (pg 3), #47 (pg4), #48, #49, #51, #55, #59, #60 thru #70. #61 and #63 mention condoms & birth control. )

You can read how my wife and I exchanged virginity (I took hers and she got mine in return) on our wedding night here: Wedding Night Virgins and here: More Wedding Night