Originally Posted by Snipaa
#1) Stop saying "I'm thinking too far ahead". Never hurts to analyse the future moderately. I mean, it will come soon enough.
#2) 125lbs for 5'7" is not FAT?!?!?!?! I love strategically placed fat on a woman
My girlfriend's 5'8 140lbs ish and I think she needs to put on weight! Majority of men I know do not like to see bones on any part of a woman's body (ribs, neck, collar bone....etc)!
OK....1....I've always tended to get too far ahead of myself, causing me to read too much into what a relationship really is, or what it might become. 2....I know I'm not fat....I guess I just need to TONE the weight I have on me....before I was pregnant, I was 120 and about 14% body fat....then I gained 60 pounds with my pregnancy....and now I have little muscle tone from the waist down (I've always been self conscious about my ass, even before I was pregnant).
To make matters worse, I ran my mouth the other day......and to make a long story short...well, yeah, he's coming over to spend the night tonight and hang out with me tomorrow. I've made myself very clear that he shouldn't "expect" anything....but I'm still nervous, because things happen, ya know? I guess "the future" really wasn't that far off....LOL