Okay, it is not! And we all love to gripe about how hard it is to move on.

What are some of the things you say to yourself that has helped or things other people tell you that has helped, or things that you would say to other people that will help them get past that dying flame?

I got one from a book. Here goes.

"You already have an @sshole. You don't need another one."

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"Ogres are like onions."