Well I'm not really stressed about that vandalism thing now. I decided to stop worrying about it anyway, then the other day I was out the back loading dock and passed one of the other ladies that work in this cafe and we both just said hi and smiled so 'no problemo' there!

I've just decided now not to worry so much about this girl, I still have a crush on her and everything but I'm not going to try going out of my way anymore to get friendly with her, only if we pass by sometime. If it happens it happens! If not, then oh well. I'll just see if fate leads us to start talking by chance some day.

Besides, she has definitely noticed me around but she shows absolutely no sign at being interested in me at all. Our shops face each other across a short distance in the centre and every now and then I have glanced across to see if she is looking over at all but she never has so I don't bother trying to get her attention at all now. Chances are she may not even have the kind of personality I'd like anyway, so what am I worrying about? Not that she looks like a snob or anything, but you know what I mean - At this stage I'm interested in her from only how she looks. I don't know her name, or anything else about her!

Thanks again for your advice though Raverboy, at least I'm not as worried about this at all now.