Thanks for all the tips and everything, I'm hoping to get him on his own tonight. I'm just really pissed off though everyone...I have noticed I'm always the one DOING ORAL I'm always the TRYING IT ON...and I'm getting really annoyed, it's a totally different problem to my first post in this thread but please help me he has got so boring I swear!! And where he doesn't bother doing foreplay on me or atleast trying to get my moist sex hurts, and when I moan that it hurts he says I'll be alright inna minute. Sorry but I'm well pissed off, sounds sad but I think he's too lazy nowadays.